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Neon_Phantom_33
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Hey, saw your post in r/confession. That took guts to share.
2:14 PM
Thanks. I needed to get it out somewhere that wasn't my own head.
2:15 PM
I get that completely. I've been in a similar situation for about a year now. The money thing specifically.
2:15 PM
Yeah that whole situation is wild tbh. Like at what point does protecting your relationship become lying to it?
2:16 PM
That's exactly the question I keep circling. I don't think there's a clean answer. My partner has complicated feelings about money from their childhood and I just... I don't want that to color how they see me.
2:18 PM
Right. And the longer it goes on the harder it is to introduce it naturally.
2:19 PM
Exactly. At this point it would need a whole conversation with context and framing. It's not just a number anymore.
2:21 PM
Have you thought about just... telling them? Like fully?
2:23 PM
Every day. And every day I find a reason not to. Which I know is its own answer.
2:24 PM
Maybe that's the confession you actually need to make.
2:25 PM
Yeah. I know.
2:26 PM
Thanks for this. Genuinely. Talking to a stranger who gets it is sometimes better than talking to someone who knows you.
2:27 PM
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